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Know Your Numbers

If you want to free yourself, once and for all, from your dependence on your paycheck, there are four numbers you must know.

After you’ve discovered the first number we discussed in the last episode, i.e. how dependent you are on your Retirement Bucket of Investments each year, you have three more to go so let’s tackle them today!

#2: How Long Does Your Retirement Bucket Have to Last?

The second number you must know is how long your Retirement Bucket™ needs to last.

That may sound like a very morbid question, but there’s a very big difference if you’re asking your Retirement Bucket to last 15 years vs. 30 years, so you must know your number to arrive at an accurate answer to your biggest question, i.e. do we have enough built up to stop working if we choose to?

Most people grossly underestimate how long they’re going to live, so let’s take a look at the IRS Joint Life Expectancy Table which provides the average age at which the surviving spouse in a couple passes away:

  • 60-Year Old Couple: 30.9 years (to age 90.9)
  • 70-Year Old Couple: 21.8 years (to age 91.8)
  • 80-Year Old Couple: 13.8 years (to age 93.8)

If you are a 60-year old couple, on average, one of you will live to age 91 so that is how long you must plan for. No small task!

#3: What Rate of Inflation Will You Assume?

The third number you must be 100% clear on is the rate of inflation you will assume because of the enormous influence it has over your purchasing power.

Life is expensive and it keeps getting more expensive!

Even if we only use the average historical rate of inflation of 3% per year, if your ideal lifestyle costs $10,000 per month right now, here’s how much you will need in the future to support the same lifestyle:

  • 10 Years: $13,000 per month
  • 20 years: $17,500 per month
  • 30 years: $23,500 per month

$23,500 per month during the final year of your joint life expectancy! The key distinction is that this is not to support a better lifestyle. This is to support your exact same lifestyle you enjoy today.

#4: How Much is Inside Your Retirement Bucket™?

The fourth number you must know to determine if you have enough built up and how much you can afford to spend without running out is how much you’ve accumulated in liquid investments, i.e. your Retirement Bucket™.

It’s unlikely you will sell your home and/or cars to support your lifestyle, so let’s not count those right now.

The key distinction to make is how much of your Retirement Bucket his held inside vs. outside of IRAs and 401(k)s.

The reason why this is critically important is that funds held inside your IRA, 401(k), or 403(b) if you happen to work for a non-profit organization, are actually worth less to you when you withdraw funds to support your lifestyle because you have to pay more income taxes on everything you withdraw.
So, you must know the bottom line amount you hold in your Retirement Bucket, and the percentage of that total held inside vs. outside of IRAs and 401(k)s.
With these numbers in hand, you are now way ahead of the curve and on the way to finding accurate answers to your three big questions:

  1. “Do we have enough built up in our Retirement Bucket of Investments to stop working if we choose to?”
  2. “How much can we afford to spend without running out?”
  3. “How do we manage our Retirement Bucket to make it last?”
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Three Answers You Must Have to Free Yourself From Dependence on Your Paycheck

Every dedicated saver we’ve worked with reached a unique inflection point in their lives which we call The Paycheck Dependency Threshold™.

After decades of working, raising a family, putting their kids through school, and saving a large percentage of their earnings, they all sort of paused, reflected, and asked themselves three very important questions:

  1. “Do we have enough built up in our Retirement Bucket of Investments to stop working if we choose to?”
  2. “How much can we afford to spend without running out?”
  3. “How do we manage our Retirement Bucket to make it last?”

If you don’t have full confidence and 100% certainty with your answers to these questions, then it’s highly likely that you will go down one of two paths:

Path One: You will continue to work longer than you need to because you think you have to when in fact you may not have to, or

Path Two: You will stop working and “retire”, but because of your fear of making a mistake and running out of money, you will have unnecessary anxiety and “pull your punches” by restricting your spending, and end up living like the masses who have to say, “I can’t afford that. I’m on a fixed income now.”

Unfortunately, there are no reliable rules of thumb, and two couples with the exact same level of savings can receive completely different answers to those three questions.

Here’s why….

No Reliable Rules of Thumb

Let’s take a look at two couples, Mike and Mary, and Ron and Rose, both age 62. To keep it simple using round numbers, assume each couple has:

  • $2,000,000 built up in their Retirement Bucket™,
  • the same social security retirement income of $3,000, and
  • the same monthly pensions of $3,000

From a quick glance, they look exactly the same and would likely receive the same answers if they called into a financial talk radio show.

That would be a terrible mistake, so let’s dig a little deeper to discover what else we know about them:

Mike and Mary have no mortgage or home equity line of credit, and they have recently completed many major upgrades to their home, i.e. a new roof, indoor and outdoor paint, a new furnace, new kitchen countertops and cabinets, and new bathrooms. They purchased new cars with cash in the last two years which they plan to drive for ten years.

Ron and Rose still have $300,000 outstanding on a second mortgage they took out to pay for their kids’ college tuitions, weddings, cars, and a condo down in Florida they bought a few years back. They both drive high-end cars which they replace every three years. And, while their home is very nice, after 26 years, it is starting to look “tired” and will need significant upgrades in the next two years.

Even though both couples have the exact same level of Retirement Bucket™ of investments, and the same amount of income coming in from social security and pensions, their situations are drastically different because it will cost much more to support Ron and Rose’s desired lifestyle.

In other words, Ron and Rose are much more dependent on their Retirement Bucket than Mike and Mary. And, this is the first of four numbers you must know if you want to free yourself of your dependence on your paycheck, i.e. over and above income you may receive from social security, pensions, and rental property, how dependent are you each year on your Retirement Bucket™ of investments?

Before we delve into the best way to calculate your level of Retirement Bucket Dependence™, I want you to know that this is not about living on a “budget” and restricting your spending. This is about having an “accounting” of what it costs you to live the way you want so you can have an accurate and reliable measuring stick to make decisions.

There’s a big difference.

To determine your level of Retirement Bucket Dependence™, you have to be very clear on your inflows and outflows. On the inflow side, how much will you receive each month from social security, pensions, and rental property?

On the outflow side, what does your ideal lifestyle cost, including “fixed” or mandatory expenses, and “discretionary” (your choice based on your priorities).

Typical “fixed” expenses include utilities, insurances, groceries, clothing (at least most clothing falls under this category), mortgages, real estate taxes, etc. These are expenses that must be paid, and typically they’re paid every month.

“Discretionary” spending, on the other hand, is where we’d like to spend all of our money, like meals out, vacations, presents for your grandkids, and entertaining! However, when planning, most folks don’t account for them as much as they should. Things

Remember, this is all about living exactly the way you want, so you want to be generous with your estimates. If you guess too low, you’re only short-changing yourself.

The difference between your inflows and your outflows during any one given year is your level of Retirement Bucket Dependence™, and this is the first of four numbers you must know if you want to free yourself of your dependence on your paycheck.

Stay tuned for number two, three, and four.

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It’s Not About Stopping Work

Kevin and Barbara were anxious and came to us looking for answers to settle their nerves. Their reaction when they discovered the answers to their biggest questions at this unique stage in their lives used to surprise us. However, it has now become the norm among our members.

Let me explain….

After putting Kevin and Barbara through our extensive program and creating their custom-designed Retirement Blueprint™ based on their priorities and resources, I had very good news for them.

“Congratulations!” I told them. “You’re in wonderful shape. Given everything you’ve shared, you can stop working right now if you want to.”

Can you guess what their reaction was? Did trumpets sound and balloons fall from the ceiling? Did Kevin dance from the room and call his managing director to say he was finished?

No. What happened?

Instead, all I heard was crickets!

Kevin and Barbara turned to each other, confused. Now that they knew they could afford to stop working, they weren’t sure they wanted to.

Kevin derives an enormous sense of accomplishment from his work, and Barbara would miss the friends she has through hers. They wondered if perhaps they didn’t want to retire, they just wanted to know they could.

This is the reaction we see more and more among the dedicated savers we help.

Kevin and Barbara weren’t interested in the conventional idea of “retirement” that has been portrayed in the media because they weren’t conventional people. For one thing, they’d done a better job than most of putting money away. For another, they’d never aspired to what most people strive to afford.

It’s Not Just About Stopping Work

As your Retirement Coach, our goal is not to get you to stop working. Our goal is to get you situated so you never have to work—never have to do anything you don’t want to—ever again. In other words, our job is to help you live your best life, however, you define it!

Your ideal best life is one in which you do whatever you want, with whomever you want, where, when, and however you want, with no dependence on a paycheck from work.

Many of our Relaxing Retirement members have continued to work well past the point where they needed to because the work they are doing remains inside of their definition of their ideal best life.

Drilling down to what “ideal” means to you requires that you set aside any fears and misconceptions you may have. Look at things you think are facts, and question if they’re really true. Call on your imagination to paint your perfect lifestyle.

Even as an exercise, it’s a massive mindset shift to go from thinking about your responsibilities and constraints to imagining your dreams and freedoms. But that’s what your years of dedicated savings can purchase. You pre-paid then for choices now.

Define Your Ideal Best Life

As potentially morbid as this may be, here is how I recommend you begin. Imagine it’s the day before your last day. Reflect on any regrets you think you might have. In thirty years of doing this, no one has ever told me their vision of the future includes more time doing menial work.

Try to come to this exercise without preconceived notions of what you think you can do. Resist basing your expectations on what your friends are or aren’t able to afford.

Come to it with a completely different mindset. Go in thinking you can have anything you want. Later we’ll put a price tag on it and let The Relaxing Retirement Formula determine whether or not you can afford it all. Because if you could, wouldn’t you like to know?

  • What do you never want to do again?
  • What are you unwilling to miss any longer?
  • What will you regret not having done?
  • What have you wanted to do forever but didn’t think you could?

Create a picture of your ideal best life that is as detailed, as exciting, and inspiring as you can.
Do this without putting any financial constraints on your imagination. Don’t worry whether or not you can afford it just yet. We’ll work on that in another edition shortly.

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